26-Women and Vaidik Rites
     The following three are 
      essential prescription for Vaidik rites:
      1. Tuft
      2. Panch Kachcham
      3. Upaveet
      
     
     Women obviously cannot shave 
     their head to have tuft (there is no Chowlaa Sanskaar prescribed for girls) 
     nor can they wear a white cloth (because Sumangalee have to wear a 
     beautiful colored cloth) nor they can wear an Upaveetam (because there is 
     no Upanayan Sanskaar prescribed for them).
      
     
     Based on the biological and 
     physiological differences, it is difficult for women to follow many 
     practices prescribed - like in the Apar Karm (for the deceased) - the 
     Kartaa performs this Sanskaar with only one Vastra tied to his waist. 
     Is it possible for women?
     Like wise, Tarpan or changing the position of Upaveetam or replacing the 
     Upaveetam, etc., it is not possible for women and these practices and 
     procedures are taking into physiology of men.
      
     
     How can a woman wear only a dear 
     skin and dedicate her life for protecting and propagating Ved when she is 
     biologically and physiologically created for other jobs.
      
     
     Will not tantamount to transgress 
     the Supreme command if we do not fulfill what is expected of us with whatever 
     human body we have been bestowed by Almighty?
      
     
     If the ultimate goal is to find 
     the Truth or to achieve the purpose of Birth, it is sufficient if we 
     perform our duties to our best, which we are expected to, discharge our 
     responsibilities and dedicate the fruit of action to the Lord who will take 
     care of us. Will He not know when to enlighten us? What we need to do is to 
     expect nothing from the Supreme and leave everything to It's will keep 
     making efforts in the right direction.
      
     
     As I said Ved are need to 
     studied, it is for those only who are endowed with that responsibility and 
     if they don't do it, they take longer to achieve the goal of oneness with 
     God, while it is unnecessary for those who have not been prescribed to 
     learn Ved.
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     1. Siddhaant Kaumudee or Ashtaadhyaayee are Grammar books. They are not 
     Vaidik authorities. There are more than 20 known Grammar books (how many 
     existed before is not known); Paanini is considered in the recent times. 
     Naaraayan Bhaatadri, the author of Naaraayaneeyam, is a great Grammarian 
     and has himself formulated rules of grammar at many places over ruling 
     Paanini by logic and sense.
      
     
     2. There are Mantra which have 
     to be recited by women only, even in our marriage 
     there are portions of Mantra which only the bride has to recite. This in no 
     way amounts to study of Ved.
      
     
     3. Yagya Tattwa - means import 
     of Yagya; Shiv Naam Braahmanee Ved means knower of / fully realized Shiv 
     Naam as Brahm Tattwa, the Taatparya in Mahaabhaarat is - women should know 
     the import of Ved like Draupadee, Taittireeya Braahaman Yagya Tattwa 
     Prakaashanee - means the knower of import of Yagya. Many of the names 
     described Saavitree etc, though resembling Puraan characters are all 
     celestials, women Rishi Patnee have learnt the import or they themselves 
     are the Mantra Drashtaa is different ; because there were some Mantra 
     contributed by some of the Rishi Patnee who by their virtues captured these 
     Mantra from space, doesn't have the logic all women should or eligible are 
     to study Ved.
      
     
     At this rate, those who perceive 
     differentiation of women in study of Ved might also seek to equal women by 
     asking men to conceive, may not be a wonder. At no point of time men and 
     women can become equal biologically (barring eunuchs); if equal, then they 
     come to a stage neither they can be called men or women. How do we equal 
     the biology which Nature has created ? Equal or greater status than men for 
     women is acceptable when situation warrants and permitted by Shaastra, but 
     not in everything in the absolute sense. By striving to make men and women 
     equal in all will mean endangering the Creation.
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     Madaalasaa, a Gyaanvatee, person with Gyaan, was a queen. She did not study 
     Ved. She sang the Verses of A-Dwait to put to sleep her baby son. Her singing 
     was not simply pronouncing the words, but being a Gyaanvatee the verses sung 
     to the baby were themselves a teaching on Aatmaa, the Self. The son grew up 
     as a  Gyaanvaan.Her second and third sons, Madaalasaa delivered, also grew-up 
     as Gyaanvaan, because they were also given Gyaanopadesh through the verses sung 
     by Madaalasaa while putting them to sleep when they were babies.
      
     
     The King was worried as no one 
     is available to care of the Kingdom after his rule, hence he requested 
     Madaalasaa not to make her next son Gyaanvaan. Madaalasaa agreed and their 
     fourth son grew-up and took over the Kingdom after his education and 
     learning of all arts, crafts, skills and Shaastra meant for a king. He 
     became a king and administered the kingdom very well. Towards the end of 
     his reign the three brothers upon compassion decided to elevate the King by 
     their teaching and the King also became a Gyaanvaan.
      
     
     Bhaarat had such mothers who did 
     not study Ved but were able to make their sons / daughters endowed with 
     Gyaan.
      
     
     Anasooyaa, the mother of 
     Dattaatreya, by her conduct transformed the Tri-Moorti Devtaa - Brahmaa, 
     Vishnu and Shiv into babies and fed them. She did not go to any Ved 
     Paathshaalaa to study Ved. Kannakee by her chastity could burn the city of 
     Madurai (Tamilnaadu), she did not study Ved. Paanchaalee, Seetaa, and 
     Mandodaree are all praised for their virtuous conduct and merely thinking 
     of them every morning would have purificatory effect as per elders.
      
     
     There are innumerable examples 
     in our Itihaas and Puraan where exemplary women reached exalted state by 
     their virtuous conduct alone and not by studying Ved; That said those who 
     are entitled for Vaidik studies if they don't do it is relegation of their 
     duty. Therefore, as far as possible whatever we know in Ved or Vaidik rites 
     let's perform them sincerely and repent for not discharging fully our duty 
     enshrined on us and pray God for forgive and redemption.
      
     
     There are some 57 women who have 
     written about 60% of Ved Richaa.
      
     
     Women are in no way inferior to 
     men; as a matter of fact nothing / no one is inferior or superior, if we 
     understand and lead life as given to us and observe our duty faithfully and 
     sincerely assigned to us.